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Alumni Choir of Kansas State University

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This past weekend, I joined about 20 other former choir members of the Kansas State University Concert Choir. Among us were individuals that sang in the choir as long ago as the late 1960’s. Helping us out on soprano were three high school students that were daughters of some of the alumni.

We met on Saturday to rehearse the music and then sang on Sunday morning for the 11:00 Mass at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church. We sang a William Byrd Kyrie, a Mozart Gloria, Schubert’s Sanctus, and Ralph Vaughn Williams Agnus Dei.

I really wish we had a recording of the music because it sounded great. It’s amazing what can be done in just 24 hours (plus the preparation we each did prior to meeting this weekend).

What a wonderful way to meet up with old friends and meet new ones. In fact, one of the tenors was a groomsman in my wedding. Good to see you again, Rob!

The really cool thing about this group – we’re going to be singing at Carnegie Hall this winter. We will be singing Haydn’s Paukenmesse.

Photo courtesy Mark Kahler.

BMH Social Club

One of my recent fun activities is getting together with a group of friends, named the BMH Social Club.  This is a beer-tasting club; BMH stands for Barley, Malt, and Hops.  Meeting once a month, we’ve pre-determined the kind of beer we’ll be tasting prior to arrival.  Each of us brings a bottle or two of a particular beer that we each taste and rate.  Lest you think we’re sitting there drinking numerous bottles of beer, we’re just drinking an ounce or so of each of the offerings.

Currently there are only 5 members of the club, so the amount of beer sampled is not that much.  Last month was our first meeting with Winter Ales and other seasonal special beers as our theme.  That was fun, because I really enjoy the Winter Ale kind of beer.

First meeting of the BMH Social Club

Last night was our February meeting, and being the month of Valentines, we decided to rate Chocolate beers.  The Boulevard Chocolate Ale was to be the star of the night, but the friend bringing that one couldn’t attend.  So, we had 4 other offerings that made for an interesting night and the discovery that chocolate beers are not all created equal (The Ommegang Seduction was king).  I’m hoping to create a blog that will report all of these findings.  Keep your eye out for the report.

BMH Social Club - February Meeting

Celebrating a birthday with a K-State win

This past Saturday was my birthday – and it was the day of the KSU-KU Sunflower Showdown in Lawrence.  I wrote about the results of the game a few days ago and mentioned that we watched the game with friends on the DVR.  I noted that we had wonderful chinese takeout, but I didn’t mention that we also had Butterfinger Ice Cream Cake. Additionally, we toasted with some birthday cake-flavored vodka – which was quite delicious and potentially dangerous.

The game was absolutely fun to watch, especially since we knew the outcome before sitting down in front of the TV.  However, I think the best part of the evening was just hanging out with some very good friends.  Linda and I are very lucky to have them.

Pictured in purple glory are Linda, Jennifer, Trey, Kaela, and the birthday boy:

Birthday greetings

Upon waking this morning to get ready for work, I found a sign hanging from the kitchen entryway. It said:

—Hey Daddy. Hope you have an awesome birthday. Im sorry Im not here to say it right now, but Happy Birthday. Have a great day!! Love, Emily. P.S. Go Cats.—

41 years and counting…

Yes, Im wishing for a K-State win at KU today in the Sunflower Showdown.

20th anniversary of proposal

Yesterday was the birthday of Linda’s father; it was also the anniversary of a very special day in our lives.

20 years ago yesterday, I asked Linda to marry me.  I’d been back from the war in Iraq (Desert Storm) for about 6 weeks and we’d spent many days traveling back and forth between Manhattan and Topeka during those 6 weeks.  Several conversations included future plans, including marriage, but we were young and in college and still had a lot to figure out.

However, I woke the morning of July 2, 1991 and decided that I couldn’t wait any longer to have Linda as my fiancé.  The ring I had purchased was not quite 3 months worth of paychecks, but it was close.  The downtown jeweler in Manhattan sold it to me for $300 – $25 per month for a year, which was a lot of money for me.  It was decided that July 2 was the day I needed to give it to her.

I called Linda to see if she would be around because, being home for the summer from college, she was working both at the public library and at a softball diamond concession stand.  It turned out she was home and, to my luck, was stuck to the house because she was waiting for the washing machine repair guy to arrive.  I drove to Topeka as quickly as I could.

I’m sure I surprised Linda when, on one knee, I asked her to marry me in the middle of her parents living room.  She quickly said yes…and then pointed out that I’d need to leave before her parents got home.  There was a birthday celebration dinner planned and I wasn’t part of the plans.  It’s my understanding that Linda even hid the ring the whole night.

One of my regrets is that I didn’t talk with Linda’s father before asking for her hand in marriage.  I’m sure it was quite a shock to her parents when they found out we were engaged.  They didn’t know much about me and it would’ve been good for them to be able to ask questions about my future plans.  In my defense, my future plans at the time weren’t all that great – I wanted to write music for a living.  Everything, thankfully, has turned out for the good.

We were finally married two years later and have spent 18 happy years on our very circuitous road to where we are now.  Twenty years ago seems like a long time; just look at how young we were!

Blast from the past – 1969 Karmann Ghia

I was going through old photos this morning and stumbled upon a picture I hadn’t seen in quite a long time.  However, every time I see it I get a little misty-eyed remembering the fun I used to have with my 1969 Volkswagen Karmann Ghia.

It wasn’t my first car – I wrecked that one about a year after I got it (the day I paid it off, in fact).  No, the Karmann Ghia was my second car – purchased for $450.  The passenger door didn’t have a latch – it was held shut with a bungee cord wrapped around the passenger seat head rest.  The seatbelts were wrapped around the seat frame (not bolted to the floor).  The body of the car had plenty of dents and rust.  Also, it was a very old, sickly baby blue color.

My dad and I did a lot of work on that car.  Bondo filled in a lot of the gaps and covered the rust-holes that were knocked out.  I didn’t have the money for a real paint job, so I painted it myself…with spray paint.  Yep – black spray paint.

I don’t know how many times I replaced the tailpipe on that thing.  I began to make regular trips to a salvage yard in Topeka that had old Volkswagen parts.  I know very little about cars, but I got to know that car very, very well.

The car was parked at my parents house while I was in Desert Storm.  I’m told it was accidentally backed into and the small amount of damage that was done totaled out the car.  When I returned from the war, my car was gone.  I didn’t even get to tell it goodbye or take it for one last spin with Beach Boy songs blaring out of the tiny speakers.

Whenever I see a Karmann Ghia on the road, I’m like the dog in the movie “Up” that is easily distracted by a squirrel.  My head turns, my ears perk up, and my heart races just a bit.  Linda and I joke that some day I’ll have a Karmann Ghia again.  As the years go by, it seems less and less likely.  Sigh…

410th Evac Hosp: 20 year reunion

Linda and I spent Saturday at the BG William Menninger Army Reserve Center in Topeka with a bunch of old Army folks.  The scary thing is that I was one of them.  We had gathered to celebrate our return from Desert Storm 20 years earlier.

Our unit was a 400-bed evacuation hospital (think M*A*S*H, but bigger).  There was more than 400 different staff – everything from doctors, nurses, medics, pharmacy staff, lab staff, communications, laundry, mechanical, drivers, administration, and many others.  I was a medic in the emergency ward of our series of tents; I worked the night shift just about 7 days a week.  I had just turned 20 years old and on a journey to growing up.  I had been pulled out of my studies in Music Education at Kansas State University and found myself learning a lot about myself and what was important in my life.

As most know, I changed my major to nursing upon returning and I asked Linda to marry me.  My experience in the emergency ward in Desert Storm had a very strong impact on my decision to enter the medical field.

At the reunion, I met up with several individuals that I had not seen in over 18 or more years.  Unfortunately, my best friends from the war were not there.  In fact, I’ve lost touch with the one person that meant the most to me.  I still hold out hope that I’ll find him some day.

The unit commander was the first to see me upon arriving.  He made a bee-line to me and Linda and quickly relayed to Linda how much I meant to him when under his command.  He recalled a pretty nasty incident that occurred between me and a senior enlisted and how I had conducted myself with class; he commented on how much that had impressed him at the time.  His eyes began to tear up while telling Linda how much this meant to him.  I can’t tell you how much this meant to me.  Thank you, COL Crisler!

Tour de Brew

This past week found Linda and I celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary.  We celebrated by participating in the Tour de Brew bicycle ride.  This is a ride that helped raise money for Bike Walk KC, an organization that promotes and lobbies for healthy living in the Kansas City area.  The tour travels along a route connecting historic Kansas City breweries; most of the buildings are now gone and some are still there, but in the form of loft apartments.

We met with neighborhood friends and did the 30-mile ride.  We averaged about 12mph and finished in just over 2.5 hours.  We had a great time and enjoyed the food and beverages after the ride.